I have always believed that when we talk about sex, we are really talking about life itself. We are talking about our capacity for joy, our ability to regulate our nervous systems, and our radical right to experience pleasure at any age.
That is why I am so thrilled to share my latest guest appearance with you. I recently had the honor of sitting down with Dr. Cat Meyer on her newly rebranded podcast, Sex Love Psychedelics.
Dr. Meyer has transformed her show from Eat Play Sex into this incredible, expansive space. Sex Love Psychedelics is designed to stimulate and titillate your brain with high-level conversations and expert guests. Whether she is analyzing the complexities of love, diving into the latest research on psychedelics, or sharing tips on energetic orgasms, it is a wild and deeply necessary ride. I encourage you to check it out and subscribe—you won’t want to miss a single episode.
An Uncensored Conversation on Pleasure as Medicine
In our episode, Dr. Cat and I didn’t hold anything back. We dove deep into the intersection of grief, rage, and the liberating power of sexual literacy.
We explored the idea that sexual repression is a cultural weight we are all bearing, and that reclaiming our erotic agency is one of the most powerful, agentic acts we can take. We talked about how to hold the heavy stuff—like grief and overwhelm—without losing our access to joy, and how pleasure acts as a vital tool to regulate our nervous systems and restore our personal power.
We also got practical. We unpacked why desire fades in long-term relationships and how we can move from the trap of “duty booty” into a state of authentic, generous intimacy. It was a beautiful, raw, and regenerative conversation about what it truly means to live with vitality.
Key Highlights from the Episode
If you want to know what we covered, here is the roadmap of our discussion:
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00:00 — Intro: Grief, Rage & Why Pleasure Is Essential
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08:13 — Sexual Repression, Agency & the Documentary Behind Closed Doors
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18:59 — Entheogens, Orgasm & Collective Connection
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33:10 — Why Desire Fades & How to Reignite It
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42:04 — Yoni Massage, Generosity & Moving Beyond “Duty Booty”
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50:04 — Affairs, Accountability & The Erotic Work of Vulnerability
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55:34 — Sensate Focus, Expanded Orgasm & Training the Nervous System for Pleasure
This episode is about more than just technique; it’s about shifting your mindset toward a life of ageless sexuality. I hope you find our conversation as expansive and empowering as I did.
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