Have You Ever Experienced Real Love and Real Sex? My Deep Dive on The Desirables Podcast
Hello, my darlings!
I have a question for you that might feel a little uncomfortable: What if most of us have never actually experienced real love or real sex?
I know that sounds bold, but it’s a question we must ask if we want to move past “fine” and into “extraordinary.” I recently had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with the wonderful hosts of The Desirables podcast to tear down the walls of conventional intimacy and rebuild something much more beautiful.
The Desirables is a space dedicated to making you believe in love again. Whether you are single and seeking or in a long-term partnership looking to reignite the flame, this podcast is an invitation to rethink everything you’ve been told about connection.
Redefining the “Desirable” Adventure
During our conversation, we explored the fresh ideas and mindsets necessary to navigate the modern dating world and deepen the soul-level connections in our current relationships. We tackled the tough stuff—the stuff most people are too afraid to talk about at the dinner table.
We discussed how performance, porn, and shame have unfortunately replaced true emotional connection and embodied pleasure for so many couples. I truly believe that many relationships don’t fail because of a lack of love; they fail because we were never taught the “operating manual” for how desire, arousal, and the human heart actually work together.
What We Unpacked in This Episode
We didn’t hold back. If you’ve been feeling a disconnect between your heart and your bedroom, this episode is for you. Here is a sneak peek at what we covered:
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The Silent Killers: Why faking orgasms and avoiding desire are the quiet “termites” that destroy the foundation of a relationship.
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Heart Over Technique: Why the “perfect move” will never beat a deep heart connection. When you connect emotionally, the sex changes completely.
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The Taboos: Why betrayal, aging, and mismatched desire are so misunderstood—and why we need to start discussing them with radical honesty.
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The Path Back to Pleasure: How intimacy can be relearned at any age through embodiment, conscious communication, and the power of self-pleasure.
“This is a space for open hearts, conscious minds, and anyone with the courage to make love the most Desirable adventure of their life.”
Are You Ready to Believe in Love Again?
My mission has always been to give you the tools to lead a life of passion and vitality. My time on The Desirables was a beautiful extension of that mission. It’s time to stop faking, stop settling, and start exploring what is truly possible when we lead with our hearts.
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I can’t wait for you to hear this one. It’s honest, it’s raw, and it might just change the way you look at your partner (and yourself) tonight.
Stay passionate,
Susan Bratton