😩 “We spent 12 years pretending everything was fine, and that nearly killed us…” (Must-Listen!)
When was the last time you had soul-shaking sex? Or have you settled for “good enough” because it’s easier than speaking up?
Does your partner actually know what turns you on?
Do you walk on eggshells with your partner?
I spilled the importance of radical honesty in relationships on IDIOT with the beautiful Laura Clery. I shared how, if you’re not open with each other, it leads to pain, affairs, and mercy sex. And you wouldn’t want that, honey.
Because my husband and I spent 12 years pretending everything was fine. Oh boy, that nearly killed us.
Now our rule is: if it affects the other person, they have a right to know. Period.
Lovely Laura and I also chatted about how oxytocin is my coping mechanism, the difference between jealousy and compersion, how complacency kills desire, what your biggest sex organ is, and female pleasure, among many other things.
What More Can You Expect From This Episode:
- Full-body touch = oxytocin = feeling safe enough to actually enjoy sex
- Porn is NOT an instruction manual
- How my vagina works better than most 30-year-olds at 63
- The importance of mental foreplay before physical foreplay
- How to NOT throw him a ‘lady boner’ out of guilt
Resentment rots your relationship from the inside. You’d rather hear an ugly truth than live a pretty lie, darling.
At 63, I refuse to limit my capacity for love, understanding, or mind-blowing orgasms. Intimacy should deepen with age (and honesty, of course).
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