My Wild & Wonderful Ride on the Good Moms Bad Choices Podcast
If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby, it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah — two brilliant, hilarious, uncensored, sex- and cannabis-positive moms who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. This is not your everyday mommy podcast. It’s raw, real, inspiring, and wildly funny. And fellas — you’re invited too!
When they asked me to join them for an episode, I knew it was going to be a ride. But nothing could have prepared me for how much fun we’d have talking about the stuff most people only whisper about — if they talk about it at all.
The Heart of the Conversation: Pleasure Is Your Birthright
We started with one of my core beliefs: Pleasure is not a luxury — it’s your birthright.
I shared how I went from 12 years in a sexless marriage to becoming a global intimacy educator, teaching people about over 20 types of orgasms. My journey wasn’t just about turning my own love life around — it was about using science, sensuality, and soul-level healing to help others claim their pleasure too.
We laughed over my “Sex Santa” nickname (thanks, ladies!) and dove deep into everything from vulva-friendly sex toys to throatgasms, ethical non-monogamy, and the subtle power of a well-prepped yoni massage.
Some Juicy Highlights
Here are just a few moments from our conversation that I think you’ll love:
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Awakening Through Pleasure (12:10) — How orgasmic healing saved my marriage and changed my life.
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Becoming an “Orgasmonaut” (20:00) — Why most women are settling for way too little, in and out of the bedroom.
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Over 20 Types of Orgasms (28:45) — From throatgasms to analgasms to nipplegasms, I break them all down.
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The Science of Expanded Orgasm (35:10) — Why it’s about more than sex… it’s about your connection to source.
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Sex Toys & Representation (44:20) — Why most toys are not designed with Black women in mind, and what’s changing.
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The “Thrust-in-Time” Technique (51:50) — A Taoist approach to make intercourse more orgasmic and deeply connective.
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Partner-Integrated Pleasure (1:03:30) — Why I love toys that vibe with your partner, not just beside them.
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Grandmas & Vibrators (1:07:00) — Yes, they’re getting it on, too!
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Cannabis & Libido (1:10:45) — The fascinating way plant medicine can support your desire.
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Ethical Non-Monogamy (1:19:20) — How I navigate life with a husband, a boyfriend, and my daughter’s full knowledge.
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STI Testing Made Easy (1:27:15) — New tech that makes screening private and painless.
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Affirmation of the Week (1:32:40) — More toys, more orgasms, more joy. Pleasure is my birthright.
Why This Episode Matters
Whether you’re partnered, solo, or just curious, this episode is an invitation to remember that pleasure isn’t frivolous — it’s information, it’s medicine, and it’s yours to claim.
So pour a glass of wine, roll a joint, or grab your favorite vibrator (no judgment — we’re friends here) and join us for a conversation that will make you laugh, blush, and maybe even rethink what’s possible in your pleasure journey.
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