Hello, my lovelies!
I recently had the absolute pleasure of calling into the Strictly Anonymous podcast, and let me tell you—we did not hold back. While I’m usually the one asking the questions and guiding you through your sexual wellness journey, this time I stepped into the hot seat to share the intimate details of my own journey into the world of group sex, warehouse orgies, and conscious kink.
If you’ve ever wondered what goes on behind the closed doors of a high-protocol orgy or how my husband and I navigate our open marriage, this episode is a must-listen.
Redefining “The Lifestyle” through Conscious Community
One of the biggest takeaways from our conversation was the distinction between “the lifestyle” and the conscious community I belong to. For me, it isn’t just about anonymous swapping; it’s about a curated circle of high-quality, fluid-bonded partners.
I shared the details of my involvement with the Mission Control community in San Francisco and why I identify as a pansexual sapiosexual. For me, the greatest aphrodisiac is a brilliant mind, and when you combine that with a safe, intentional space, the experiences become truly transcendent.
From Burning Man to Warehouse Orgies
We went deep into the archives of my most memorable experiences, including:
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The Orgy Dome and Adoration: My adventures at Burning Man, including the liberation of the Critical Tits party.
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The Warehouse Experience: What exactly goes down at a large-scale orgy, the “rules and regulations” I follow to stay safe and empowered, and why I find the energy of a room full of pleasure so healing.
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The Art of the “Spit Roast”: Yes, we talked about my favorite positions and why I find this specific dynamic so incredibly satisfying.
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The Strap-on Daisy Chain: A playful, powerful experience that I still think about today!
Why It’s Never Too Late
One thing I really wanted to emphasize on the show is that I didn’t start exploring group sex until much later in life. If you feel like you’ve “missed the boat” on sexual exploration, think again! Diving into these experiences in my later years has helped me feel more confident in my body than I ever did in my twenties. It’s about reclamation and radical self-love.
Bringing the Heat Home
I know that a warehouse orgy isn’t for everyone. During the episode, I shared how you can recreate that high-protocol, high-pleasure energy right in your own bedroom.
Whether it’s showing off in your favorite lingerie (one of my personal favorite ways to feel powerful) or mastering a specific G-spot technique that I reveal in the interview, you don’t need a crowd to have a transcendent experience.
Want to level up your solo or partner play? Check out my Expanded Orgasm course to learn the techniques that turned my sex life into a masterpiece.
Listen to the Full Episode
I am so grateful to the host of Strictly Anonymous for creating a space where we can talk about these “taboo” topics with such candor and wit.
Resources Mentioned in the Show:
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FREE EBOOK: Grab my latest tips for a better sex life at SABedroom.com.
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Strictly Anonymous Patreon: To see anonymous pics and get early access to episodes, join their Patreon here.
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SDC: Curious about the scene? Use code 37712 at [suspicious link removed] for a free trial.
I can’t wait to hear what you think of the episode. Are you curious about group sex, or is your “Mission Control” strictly a party of two? Let’s keep the conversation going!
Stay passionate,
Susan Bratton