What if sex were treated as an essential part of your health—not a luxury, an occasional reward, or something you simply accept losing with age? That is the perspective I shared during my guest appearance on the Hydrate Podcast with Tracy Duhs. Tracy is a trusted advisor in the bioenergetic wellness space and describes herself
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Selfish Is the Key: My Candid Conversation on The Selfish Woman Podcast If you’ve been in my orbit for a while, you know I believe intimacy isn’t just something that “happens”—it’s a dynamic, evolving practice of reclaiming your energy, your body, and your pleasure. That’s why sitting down with Valerie on The Selfish Woman podcast
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I recently joined relationship coach and author Shana James on her Practicing Love podcast for a candid conversation about something I’ve devoted decades of my life to: creating relationships where we can be fully known, deeply desired, and genuinely loved. Shana’s work is rooted in an idea I wholeheartedly appreciate—that great relationships don’t simply happen.
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I recently joined host Sean Kelly on the Digital Social Hour podcast for a candid conversation about modern relationships, intimacy technology, emotional safety, and the future of human connection. Digital Social Hour is known for going where other shows often won’t. Sean sits down with trailblazing entrepreneurs, cultural figures, and provocative thinkers to explore the
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I’m delighted to share my article, “Tracking Intimacy: How Wellness Apps Can Boost Your Pleasure,” featured in the Summer 2026 issue of Sexual Health Magazine. I explore the emerging world of quantified intimacy—how thoughtfully tracking arousal, pleasure, and sexual function can deepen self-knowledge, reveal what truly supports your body, and help you cultivate greater pleasure,
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One of my favorite things about talking with curious, open-minded people is that we get to challenge old myths and replace them with possibility. That’s exactly what happened when I joined Florence Bark and Reed Amber on the Come Curious Podcast—a show known for its refreshingly honest conversations about sex, relationships, pleasure, and everything most
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One of the biggest myths about great lovers is that they’re simply born with natural talent. The truth is, most people—especially men—were never taught how to create deep intimacy or truly understand a woman’s pleasure. Instead, many have learned from pornography, social media, unrealistic cultural messages, or simply by guessing. That’s why I was delighted
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The Biggest Intimacy Myth That’s Holding You Back One of the greatest misconceptions about intimacy is that it’s something we’re simply supposed to know how to do. We assume passion should come naturally and, if it fades, that it’s just part of getting older or being together for a long time. I don’t believe that’s
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