My “Elder Slut Era” & The Future of Sex Tech: Back in The Labia Lounge!
Hello, my lovers!
I am so thrilled to share my latest guest appearance on one of the juiciest, most unapologetic podcasts on the internet: The Labia Lounge.
If you haven’t met the fabulous Freya Graf yet, you are in for a treat. Freya is a Yoni Mapping Therapist and Holistic Sex Coach who is on a mission to demystify, de-stigmatize, and dismantle the shame around our genitals and our pleasure.
In the Labia Lounge, we don’t do “polite small talk.” We do real chats about real shit. We laughed, we got vulnerable, and we took a deep dive into the sex education you should have had.
What We Geeks Out On
This episode was a powerhouse session. Freya and I sat down to talk about the evolution of our intimate lives—specifically how we can maintain (and even increase!) our sexual vitality as we age. We didn’t hold back.
Here’s a taste of what we covered:
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The Anatomy of Arousal: We broke down the science of pleasure, from nitric oxide and blood flow to how healthy tissue is the secret sauce for sensational sex at any age.
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The “Sex Tech” Revolution: I shared my honest take on the industry. We discussed what actually works, what’s just a patriarchal gimmick, and how to spot the difference.
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Owning the “Elder Slut Era”: I talked about my personal journey into aging vibrantly. For me, pleasure isn’t just a luxury; it’s a key to longevity, happiness, and sovereignty.
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Regenerative Biohacking: From red light therapy and acoustic wave treatments (like GainsWave) to hormone support and why your gut health is actually the factory for your “cuddle chemicals” (oxytocin and serotonin).
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Pleasure Cross-Training: Why you shouldn’t rely on just one “quick fix.” I shared practical tips on how to diversify your pleasure pathways and keep your orgasmic potential expanding.
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The Warning Labels: I gave some very specific cautions about trends to avoid—like certain vaginal lasers and RF rejuvenation devices—and why body literacy is your best defense.
Why This Matters
My intention is always to help you feel empowered, not broken. Whether you are a “pleasure pro” or just starting to get curious about your own body, this conversation is about giving you the tools to be agentic—to have the agency and wisdom to make choices that serve your pleasure.
We even got into the nitty-gritty of my favorite lubes, sex toys, and some of my favorite DIY recipes for intimacy.
Listen Now
Are you ready to pop your feet up and “flappin’ do this” with us?
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It’s time to normalise the aspects of being human that we’re often too afraid to talk about. You are not alone, you are not broken, and your best sex is likely still ahead of you.
Keep reaching for more,
Susan Bratton